Infidelity represents a partner's violation of norms regulating the level of emotional or physical intimacy with people outside the relationship. You meet someone, fall in love with them and of course you expect to spend your life with them. At that very moment, you believe that what you are feeling for your partner is undying love and that the two of you will always be like you are at that moment. We all believe in love, marriage, the house with the white picket fence, and 2.5 children and living happily ever after.There's nothing wrong with dreaming and having those dreams come true.
When we are getting to know the other person, we go all out to make them happy. We find out their likes and dislikes and we set out to win their affections. Once the relationship takes on some form of permanence, the couples began to change. We are so enthralled with being with the "one we love" that we forget everything and everybody around us. You think that you are being the best partner, doing everything that they ask of you, making sure that all of their needs are taken care of, making a home for them, and then all of a sudden you notice some things changing within your partner.
It is not only men that cheat; the women are right up there with them. I think they believe that if they can’t beat them, they just as well join them in this game of duplicity. The women have been a victim of infidelity for so long, they notice the signs and they have set out to try and out cheat the men.
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